About Arlene

I’m Arlene Mains: wife, mother, and evidential medium. My connection with spirit has been with me since childhood, but it was the sudden passing of my beloved brother, Shawn, that truly awakened my purposeful journey as a medium.

While I was naturally attuned to the spirit world, I knew I wanted to deepen my understanding and refine my ability to serve. Spirit led me to two extraordinary mentors, Bill Coller and Sharon Siubis, at the Inner Spiritual Center in Fairfield, New Jersey. For the past nine years, I’ve dedicated myself to intensive study and disciplined practice, honing my accuracy and sensitivity to deliver meaningful, healing messages.

Mediumship, for me, is a sacred responsibility, one that can be life-changing, even life-saving, for those who seek connection. I believe mediumship and connection with the spirit world are not reserved for a select few. Every person has the ability to connect with their own soul and with the love that surrounds them in spirit. We are a soul with a body, not a body with a soul, and remembering that truth opens the door to profound healing and awareness.

I also feel deeply called to educate the public on what responsible mediumship truly is. Evidential mediumship is not about vague messages or guesswork, it is about providing clear, specific evidence of a loved one’s life, personality, and ongoing presence in spirit. It is about validating the continuity of the soul with integrity, compassion, and accuracy. In addition to my own work with spirit, I am dedicated to teaching others the highest standard of evidential mediumship, rooted in ethics, discipline, and a deep respect for the sacredness of this connection.

Beyond my work as a medium, I live a spirit-inspired life, following the breadcrumbs into the unknown to fulfill my greatest purposes. I choose faith over fear every day and teach others how to do the same. Trusting that when you follow the quiet whispers of your soul, you are always led to where you are meant to be.

I believe everyone deserves access to the love and healing that comes from a message from the other side. I serve as a Sunday medium in various spiritual churches, offering inspired talks and evidential messages. I volunteer my time for platform demonstrations and fundraisers, sharing hope and comfort with audiences large and small.

Each summer, I travel to the historic Lily Dale community in New York, where I serve as a platform medium. It was there, before a sea of faces, that I connected a child in spirit with his parents sitting in the front row, a reading so profound it forever shifted the course of my work.

That moment inspired my deep commitment to helping parents reconnect with their children in spirit. Today, I am honored to serve groups such as Helping Parents Heal (HPH) and other organizations supporting families through the unimaginable loss of a child. After five months of blind readings, I was humbled to become an officially Mark Ireland Certified HPH Medium, a recognition that reflects the integrity, dedication, and love I bring to this work.

At the heart of everything I do is the belief that love is eternal, spirit is always near, and connection is always possible. It’s my life’s purpose to bridge that connection with compassion, evidence, and grace while helping others understand, trust, and nurture their own soul connection.

I would love to hear from you! If you have any questions or if my story resonated with you please contact me HERE.